Understanding Liu Xing
Wednesday, March 16, 2005I'm going to be 25 in another 7 weeks. It's coming soon! I'm so afraid!!!
Why, you might ask. Every year without fail, I evaluate myself on my birthday.
How much I've achieved?
Where I am now?
Who am I today?
What will I do tomorrow, or days to come?
Then tears will sheds... I've not being able to smile looking at my achievements, never, and I don't think I will be able to do too, this year. Apart from knowing how much people around me loves me, which is the most wonderful thing in the world.
I view the importance of being one of the high achievers as a very very important thing for me, I was the Vice president of a Leo Club, managing over 100 members, meeting over 30 different clubs every other week... Dealing with events involving thousands of high spirit youth. Challenges as I like. I wonder why I don't miss em anymore.
The year I was awarded with a TOP LEO MEMBER AWARD 2000/01, equivalent with a LEO OF THE YEAR AWARD 2000/01. It was one of my unforgettable moment, standing up among thousand of other youth. I received a big round of applause having to serve my community, club and country with outstanding achievements.
To add to all the happiness, my president was awarded the TOP PRESIDENT AWARD 2000/01 and our leo club, the LEO CLUB OF CYBER AMITY was awarded as the CLUB OF THE YEAR 2000/01!
Amazing!! Simply amazing!!!
After a lot of cheering, applause, ra ra sessions and phone calls and shouting and exciments, we went up to our room, and we fell asleep!
It was a very tiring year indeed... Alot of work. It was a full time commitment. So much work, so little time... I went on with my responsibility as the CLUB PRESIDENT 2001/02. I was installed as the president of my club a week before I started working with Tyco International...
Life turned harder, having to cope my responsibily as a President of a club and an employee of a MNC proved harder then I expected. Meetings after work is normal, sleepless weekend is even more normal, later, I start having sleep over in the office to cope with my work as well...
My relationship with my boyfriend fell apart after one month I start committing myself to my new life. He found someone better, someone who are committed to him instead to her job and a club. Which is good for him. Im sure!
Having to commit myself to two full time job is just so hard... and I manage to go thru all of it as well! Having being promoted every 6-8 months, I end up being a Marketing Communications Executive, but I end all my glory as a human last year, in November 2004, after failing to cope with
all the nonsense.
November 2004 December 2004 January 2005 Febuary 2005 March 2005
5 months after I stop living, as a normal human being... I'm struggling to live again.
I'm gathering my energy, I wanna stand up tall and make all the difference I can, to help everyone, to gain back their confidence and continue living in the world as a better person, and most importantly, being proud of it too.
I might not going to smile looking back at my recent achievement on my birthday but I know I'm going to have a good luff at it next year!
I did a little research about myself, and I would like to share with all of you about my findings...
Enjoy! :)
How to Spot Liu Xing
1) High energy; I jumpie jumpie, I luffie lufie... Hahaa.. I'm full time irritater!
2) Friendly; I talk to a lot of people! I can talk about different different things too! I love talking!
3) Good natured; errrrr kekeke... I rahter not comment!
4) Imaginative; Oh yeah... Hhmm...
5) Fun loving; Dave can prove this! I like fun! No fun, no life!
6) Off beat; Ya... sometimes fast, sometimes slow, sometimes no beat...
7) Curious; Always and forever, I like to experiment with new stuff I see, its fun!
8) Discussions shift quickly from one topic to another; Yeah man, I don't talk about the same thing for too long!
9) Warm; I'm a warm person, put I can also be quiet cold blooded!
10) Concerned, and eager to help solve problems; I liek to help, my defination of help ya!
Tips for Communicating with Liu Xing
1) Focus on interesting and innovative possibilities and new ways of solving problems. There are so many possibilities! Why keep using the same way to solve probs? Same thing is BORING!
2) Don't overwhelm them with facts and details; No details man, u are wasting my time with details!
3) Keep things relaxed, warm and flexible; Just sit back and chill, dude... No preplan activities for me, no schedules!!!
How to Love Liu Xing
Appreciate my creativity, curiosity, and uniqueness.
I'm DIFFERENT. I dress differently, I behave differently. I angry with differently. I'm one and only in the earth. U cannot find anyone as horrible as me. No No No...
Tell me how much I mean to you and be patient with my need to process how I feel privately before sharing it with you.
Tell me often enuff, bcoz sometimes I forget you told me edi!! Just keep telling me, but don't sit down there and tell me lah... Do something to prove it too! :P
Re-establish harmony quickly.
Peace.
Support my need to try new experiences and maintain my many friendships. Be creative. Different move, positions, words, tactics and style interest me.
Try not force decisions too quickly, or bug me about being messy.
I like being messy!!! Messy is good, it's a form of art. abstract.
Above all - encourage me to keep growing, changing, and experimenting with life because life is wonderful as a breath of fresh air!
I need to sleep now. Ciao.
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11:30 PM
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Hi Liu Xing
After reading a good blog I tend to analyze it to see what the person behind it might be like.
I've been in the goal setting business a while now and just like most people with experience in different areas of expertise, I can tell a lot about a person just by speaking to them or reading something they've written.
You haven't wrtten any goals on paper for awhile have you? And if you have I'll bet you haven't looked at them for a long time. Right?
Goal setting is hard work, and harder still if you don't have short range goals, mid range goals and long range goals.
I think you'll agree that few people really take the time to set goals of any kind.
When is the last time you really thought about setting some real goals, or are you like the vast majority of people who just "hope for the best"?
You already know successful people aren't "just lucky", they know how to set effective goals and reach them.
I was like that once, you might be also.
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Happy New Year!